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We are thrilled to announce a major milestone for two of our incredible clinicians here at Innerspace Counseling! Congratulations to Lauren Spiegel, LPC, and Taylor Strothmann, LPC, on obtaining their Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) credentials. This achievement is a testament to their dedication, expertise, and unwavering commitment to the mental health field. We are so proud of Lauren and Taylor for their hard work, passion, and the positive impact they continue to have on the lives of those they serve.

What Does It Mean to Obtain an LPC?

The LPC, or Licensed Professional Counselor, is a professional designation that signifies a clinician's advanced level of training and expertise in providing mental health counseling. An LPC is licensed to assess, diagnose, and provide treatment for a variety of mental health challenges. It is a mark of professional competency that ensures clients...

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Setting boundaries is a fundamental aspect of fostering healthy, respectful relationships—whether in our personal or professional lives. Boundaries define where one person ends and another begins, offering essential guidance on how to interact with one another. When boundaries are unclear or neglected, relationships can become fraught with miscommunication, hurt feelings, and unhealthy patterns of behavior. In this blog post, we will explore the importance of boundaries and provide practical examples to help you set them effectively.

If setting and respecting boundaries feels challenging, know that you are not alone. Innerspace Counseling offers support through our Intensive Outpatient Program (IOP) and Partial Hospitalization Program (PHP). Our services focus on guiding individuals, both adults and adolescents, toward building healthier relationships with themselves and others.

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Storytelling has long been a powerful tool for understanding the human experience. From ancient oral traditions to modern films and literature, stories help us make sense of our thoughts and feelings. For individuals facing mental health issues, storytelling can be more than just entertainment—it can be an essential part of healing. Films, books, and other narrative forms provide unique insights into our internal world, offering new ways to process emotions, identify with characters, and even foster new coping skills.

In therapy, storytelling can help unlock emotions that are difficult to express and encourage individuals to reflect on their own life experiences. Whether it's the protagonist of a novel facing adversity or a movie character overcoming grief, these narratives provide pathways to understanding ourselves better. At Innerspace Counseling, we incorporate these tools in our...

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In today's world, gaming has become an integral part of life for people of all ages. Whether it's children, adolescents, or adults, millions of people around the globe turn to video games for entertainment, connection, and even escape. For many, gaming can be a healthy way to unwind and de-stress after a long day. However, it’s important to recognize both the benefits and the potential dangers that gaming presents to mental health.

While gaming can offer numerous mental health benefits, over-immersion or addiction can lead to mental health problems, including...

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School avoidance, also known as school refusal, is an increasing concern for students, parents, and school counselors alike. Students who avoid school often experience severe anxiety or other mental health problems that make attending school feel overwhelming. For school counselors, identifying and addressing school avoidance early is crucial to preventing long-term academic and social challenges for these students. When traditional interventions don’t work, recommending more intensive mental health services, such as a Partial Hospitalization Program (PHP), like those offered by Innerspace Counseling, can be a necessary and effective step toward getting students back on track.

Understanding School Avoidance: Signs and Symptoms

School avoidance can manifest in...

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In today’s polarized world, political identity often transcends mere opinion—it becomes a core part of our self-concept. Whether you identify as liberal, conservative, or somewhere in between, your political beliefs can shape your values, influence your actions, and affect how you relate to the world around you. For many, political identity is deeply intertwined with their sense of purpose and belonging, which can have profound effects on mental health and emotional well-being.

The emotional toll of political identity can be especially heavy for those who feel marginalized, misunderstood, or constantly engaged in political conflict. Political beliefs can amplify feelings of anxiety, depression, and stress, especially when these beliefs clash with those of friends, family, or...

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In recent years, there has been a significant shift in the sports world regarding the importance of mental health, and athletes' mental resilience is now recognized as just as crucial as their physical prowess. High-profile athletes from various sports have publicly shared their struggles with anxiety, depression, and other mental health issues, highlighting the growing awareness and conversation around mental resilience in high-stakes moments. At Innerspace Counseling, we understand that whether you’re an elite athlete or a weekend warrior, mental resilience is a vital component of overall well-being.

The Rise of Mental Health Awareness in Sports

Recent sports events have brought mental health to the forefront of public discussion. Naomi Osaka, Simone Biles,...

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Yesterday, Innerspace Counseling hosted an inspiring networking brunch event called "A Therapist’s Toolbox," where our talented therapists, Gaby Valentino, LSW, and Kristen Paladino, LSW, shared valuable insights with attendees. This event brought together a wonderful group of professionals dedicated to enhancing their mental health care skills and supporting their clients more effectively.

The event was not just an opportunity to network; it was a chance to dive into the strategies and tools that can significantly impact mental health treatment. Our therapists, Gaby and Kristen, led a dynamic presentation focused on building a personalized toolbox for mental health. They covered everything from their favorite worksheets and games to the critical importance of...

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In our modern climate, it’s nearly impossible to escape the constant barrage of news, headlines, and political updates. With every swipe on social media or turn of the TV, we’re met with new information that often feels overwhelming, disheartening, and anxiety-inducing. The current political climate is filled with intense debates, conflicting ideologies, and often, an overwhelming sense of division. It’s no wonder that many people are experiencing heightened levels of stress, anxiety, hyper-fixation on events and even catastrophic thinking. At Innerspace Counseling, we understand the toll this can take on your mental health. If you’re feeling overwhelmed by the constant flood of political stress, know that your concerns are valid, and you’re not alone.

The Weight of Political Stress and Its Impact on Mental Health

Political stress is real, and it can have a profound impact on your mental health. For many,...

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As the vibrant days of summer fade into the crispness of fall, many children experience a range of emotions. Seasonal transitions, especially the shift from summer to fall, can be challenging for children. Changes in routine, weather, and daylight can affect their mental health, sometimes leading to anxiety, depression, and other mental health issues. Understanding these changes and offering supportive strategies can make a significant difference in how kids adjust during this period. If these adjustments become too overwhelming, Innerspace Counseling’s specialized services, including the...

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As summer comes to a close, it's an excellent time to reflect on the goals and intentions we set at the beginning of the season. Whether you aimed to spend more time with friends or family, focus on personal growth, or work on managing your mental health, summer goals often come with excitement and optimism. However, as life happens, not all goals are met exactly as planned—and that’s okay. At Innerspace Counseling, we believe that reassessing and setting new goals is a powerful mindfulness practice, especially when grounded in principles from Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT).

As we transition into fall, it's essential to take a compassionate look back at the summer, reassess our progress, and set fresh intentions that align with where we are now. This is more than just setting goals; it's about embracing a mindful approach to self-reflection and growth—a practice that can significantly impact...

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Transitioning to a new school is a significant milestone in a child's life, whether it’s moving from elementary to middle school, middle to high school, or relocating to an entirely new district. While this change can be an exciting opportunity for growth and new experiences, it often comes with its own set of challenges that can impact a child's mental health. At Innerspace Counseling, we understand the unique struggles that children, adolescents, and their families face during these transitions. Our Intensive Outpatient Program (IOP) and Partial Hospitalization Program (PHP) are designed to support individuals who find these changes overwhelming, providing them with the tools they need to navigate this challenging period.

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When most people think about consent, they often associate it with physical intimacy. While it’s true that consent is crucial in these situations, the concept extends far beyond the realm of romantic or sexual relationships. Consent is a fundamental aspect of all human interactions, including friendships, workplace relationships, and even family dynamics. Understanding and practicing consent is vital for establishing trust, mutual respect, and healthy boundaries in every area of our lives.

At Innerspace Counseling, we believe that fostering an understanding of consent can significantly enhance mental health and well-being. Whether in our Intensive Outpatient Program (IOP) or Partial Hospitalization Program (PHP), we emphasize the importance of respecting others' boundaries and clearly communicating our own. This blog will explore why consent is so crucial in various contexts, provide examples of...

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As the new school year approaches, both teachers and students often experience a mix of excitement and anxiety. The pressure to perform academically, coupled with the social and emotional challenges of school life, can be overwhelming. To help navigate these challenges, incorporating mindfulness into the classroom can be a game-changer. This blog will explore why mindfulness is essential in an educational setting and provide practical techniques for both teachers and students. We'll also highlight how Innerspace Counseling's programs, including our Intensive Outpatient Program (IOP) and...

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Turning 40 is a significant milestone, especially for millennials who grew up navigating the rapidly changing world of technology, social media, and evolving cultural norms. As you step into this new chapter, you may be feeling a mix of emotions—excitement, nostalgia, perhaps even some anxiety. It’s natural to wonder about the future and reflect on where you’ve been. But here’s the good news: aging is a beautiful, enriching experience that brings a wealth of gifts.

The Beauty of Aging: Gifts You’ve Earned

  1. Wisdom and Insight: As you age, you accumulate knowledge and experience that help you navigate life with greater ease and confidence. The challenges you’ve faced have taught you...

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In today's fast-paced world, the concept of "dating yourself" is gaining popularity as a unique and effective way to enhance mental well-being. This emerging trend encourages individuals to take themselves out on activities and outings they enjoy, such as going out for a meal, hiking, or engaging in creative hobbies like pottery. While dating yourself may seem unconventional, it's a powerful practice that can offer numerous mental health benefits. In this blog, we'll explore the advantages of dating yourself, why it matters, and how it can positively impact your mental health.

What Does It Mean to "Date Yourself"?

"Dating yourself" involves setting aside time to engage in activities you love, all by yourself. It's about treating yourself with the same care, attention, and affection that you would offer to a romantic partner. Whether it's enjoying a solo dinner at your...

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Anxiety is a common human experience, affecting individuals of all ages and backgrounds. It can manifest in various forms and intensities, from a brief period of nervousness before a significant event to a more persistent and overwhelming state of distress. While feeling anxious itself is a normal emotional response, it can sometimes develop into an anxiety disorder, which requires more specialized mental health care.

At Innerspace Counseling, we offer a range of programs, including our Intensive Outpatient Program (IOP) and Partial Hospitalization Program (PHP), to support individuals struggling with anxiousness and anxiety disorders. In this blog, we’ll explore the distinctions between general anxiety and anxiety disorders, discuss coping skills, and...

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When it comes to diagnosing mental health issues, it's essential to recognize that symptoms can manifest differently in boys and girls. This difference in presentation can impact how symptoms of diagnoses such as Attention-Deficit/Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD), depression, and anxiety are identified by teachers, parents and doctors. Understanding these nuances is crucial for developing effective treatment plans and ensuring that individuals receive the appropriate mental health care. At Innerspace Counseling, we are committed to providing tailored support through our...

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At Innerspace Counseling, we are constantly striving to enhance our services and provide comprehensive care that meets the needs of our clients and their support systems. We are excited to announce a new initiative aimed at further strengthening the support network for our clients: our new support groups for friends and family. This initiative will introduce two dedicated support groups per month, one for parents of our younger clients and another for the families and support networks of our adult clients. This addition is designed to complement our existing treatment options, including our Intensive Outpatient Program (IOP) and Partial Hospitalization Program (PHP), and to offer an extra layer of education and support for the...

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Being a caregiver is a profound and often rewarding responsibility, but it also comes with a unique set of challenges that can significantly impact your mental and physical health. Whether you are caring for an aging parent, a sick partner, a disabled adult, or even a high-needs pet, the role can demand constant attention, energy, and emotional investment. It's easy to become absorbed in the needs of those you care for and neglect your own well-being. At Innerspace Counseling, we understand the complexities and emotional toll of caregiving and are here to support you through our Intensive Outpatient Program (IOP) and Partial Hospitalization Program (PHP).

Understanding Caregiver Burnout

Caregiver burnout is a state of physical, emotional, and mental exhaustion that can occur when caregivers don't get the help they need or if they try to do more than they are able—physically or...

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In the ever-evolving landscape of parenting and mental health, a new trend is gaining traction: parents are increasingly recognizing the importance of not forcing their children to hug or show affection to anyone, including friends and family, if they feel uncomfortable. This shift emphasizes teaching children about boundaries and allowing them the autonomy to decide their comfort levels with physical affection. At Innerspace Counseling, we believe this approach is crucial for nurturing healthy, respectful relationships and fostering emotional well-being in children.

The Importance of Allowing Children to Voice Their Comfort Levels

Respecting a child's boundaries and comfort levels with physical affection is more than just a modern parenting trend; it is a fundamental aspect of teaching them about personal autonomy and consent. When children are allowed to express their thoughts and feelings about physical affection, they learn that their body is their own and that they have the right to decide how it is treated. This lesson is critical in helping...

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In the realm of mental health care, there's a common misconception that therapy is a magical cure-all, capable of fixing every issue we face. The reality, however, is more nuanced and grounded in the ongoing process of growth, learning, and self-improvement. At Innerspace Counseling, we emphasize that the true value of therapy lies not in achieving a state of perfect mental health but in equipping individuals with the tools and coping skills necessary to navigate life's inevitable ups and downs.

The Myth of the "Cure-All" Therapy

Many people enter therapy with the expectation that they will emerge completely "fixed" or "cured" of their mental health issues. This unrealistic expectation can lead to disappointment and frustration when progress doesn't happen as quickly or as completely as hoped. The truth is, mental health is a lifelong journey, and therapy is a vital part of that journey, offering support, guidance, and the development of essential coping skills.

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Divorce can be a tumultuous experience for any family, but its impact on children can be particularly profound. The process often brings about a range of emotions and changes that can be difficult for children to navigate. Understanding these impacts and knowing how to support your child or teen through this challenging time is crucial.

At Innerspace Counseling, we offer programs for children to learn coping skills and express their emotions in a healthy manner. We design our programs to help children develop effective ways to deal with their emotions. We aim to teach children how to cope with difficult situations and express their feelings in a positive way.

The Impact of Divorce on Children

Children of all ages can experience a variety of emotional and behavioral changes during and after a divorce. Some common reactions include:

  1. Anxiety and Depression: The uncertainty and changes that come with divorce can lead to increased...

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Processing disorders are neurological conditions that affect the way individuals perceive, understand, and respond to information. These disorders can show up in different ways, like trouble processing sounds, trouble processing visuals, and trouble processing sensory information. Despite their prevalence, processing disorders are often undiagnosed or overlooked, leading to significant challenges for those affected. In this blog, we will explore the nature of processing disorders, why they are frequently missed, and offer strategies for coping and accommodation.

What Are Processing Disorders?

Processing disorders disrupt the way the brain interprets and acts on sensory information. This can impact everyday activities and learning in children, adolescents,...

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Procrastination is a common human experience. At some point, everyone has delayed tasks, pushed deadlines, or avoided responsibilities. While occasional procrastination is normal, chronic procrastination can lead to anxiety, depression, and other mental health issues. Understanding the psychology behind procrastination and recognizing when it becomes problematic is crucial for maintaining mental well-being. This blog explores the causes and consequences of procrastination, highlights its connection to various mental health disorders, and offers strategies to overcome it. Additionally, we'll discuss how Innerspace Counseling's...

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When it comes to mental health, understanding the distinction between a diagnosis and tendency is crucial. It helps individuals recognize the severity of their symptoms and seek the appropriate level of care. This clarity is essential for developing effective coping strategies and treatment plans. In this blog, we'll delve into the differences between mental health diagnoses and tendencies, explore examples of various mental health disorders, and discuss how Innerspace Counseling can assist you in navigating your mental health journey.

Mental Health Diagnosis vs. Tendencies

What is a Mental Health Diagnosis?

A mental health diagnosis is a formal identification of a mental health disorder, made by a qualified mental health professional such as a psychiatrist or clinical psychologist. Diagnoses are based on criteria outlined in the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM-5), which includes specific symptoms, their duration, and the impact on an individual's daily functioning. A diagnosis often leads to a...

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Innerspace Counseling’s Intensive Outpatient Program (IOP) and Partial Hospitalization Program (PHP) are designed to support individuals struggling with various mental health issues. One key requirement for participation in these programs is maintaining sobriety. Although Innerspace Counseling is not a substance abuse treatment facility, we are a primary mental health treatment facility, and understanding why this rule is in place can help clients fully engage with the therapeutic process and achieve the best possible outcomes.

The Impact of Substance Use on Mental Health Treatment

Alcohol and recreational drug use can significantly impact mental health treatment. When trying to identify behaviors and symptoms, substance use can cause shifts in mood, cognition, and overall behavior, making it difficult to pinpoint the underlying mental health issues. For example, alcohol and...

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In today's fast-paced world, mental health issues such as anxiety, depression, and other mental health disorders are increasingly prevalent. For those struggling with these challenges, finding effective coping mechanisms is crucial. One often overlooked yet powerful tool for improving mental health is creativity. At Innerspace Counseling, we recognize the significant role that creative activities can play in promoting mental well-being. In this blog, we will explore the connection between creativity and mental health, highlighting how creative pursuits can help heal and ground individuals.

The Benefits of Creativity for Mental Health

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June 27th marks PTSD Awareness Day, a significant occasion dedicated to raising awareness about Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD), a mental health condition that affects millions worldwide. At Innerspace Counseling, we believe in the importance of understanding PTSD, recognizing its symptoms, and supporting those who suffer from this condition. This day serves as a reminder of the impact PTSD can have on individuals' lives and the crucial role that effective treatment and support play in their recovery.

Understanding PTSD

PTSD is a mental health disorder that can develop after a person has experienced or witnessed a traumatic event. Such events can include, but are not limited to, natural disasters, serious accidents, terrorist acts, war/combat, different types of violent personal assaults, illness and more. PTSD is characterized by a range of symptoms that can disrupt daily life and affect...

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Executive functioning is a crucial set of cognitive skills that enables us to manage our thoughts, actions, and emotions to achieve goals. These skills are essential for everyday tasks and play a significant role in our personal and professional lives. But what exactly is executive functioning, and why is it so important?

What is Executive Functioning?

Executive functioning refers to a group of mental processes that help individuals plan, focus attention, remember instructions, and juggle multiple tasks successfully. Think of these skills as the brain's management system, coordinating various cognitive functions to ensure smooth operation.

Here are the core components of executive functioning:

  • Working Memory: The ability to hold and manipulate information over short periods.

  • Cognitive Flexibility: The capacity to adapt to new situations and switch perspectives.

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As summer approaches and temperatures soar, it becomes increasingly important to understand how heat impacts our health, especially for those managing mental health issues and taking medication. High temperatures can exacerbate mental health problems, interfere with medication efficacy, and pose serious health risks. This blog will explore the intricate relationship between heat, medication, and mental health, offering insights into how to stay safe and maintain mental well-being during hot weather.

The Impact of Heat on Medication

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In today's fast-paced world, prioritizing self-care is more crucial than ever. Whether dealing with anxiety, depression, or other mental health issues, taking time to care for oneself can make a significant difference. Self-care is not just about pampering yourself; it’s about making choices that enhance your physical, mental, and emotional well-being. In this blog, we'll explore the importance of self-care and provide practical tips to integrate it into your daily life.

Understanding Self-Care

Self-care encompasses a broad range of activities that help maintain and...

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Father's Day is often portrayed as a joyful celebration, filled with gratitude and love for the fathers and father figures in our lives. However, this day can evoke a complex mix of emotions for many individuals, depending on their unique experiences and relationships with their fathers. At Innerspace Counseling, we recognize that mental health issues can surface or intensify during such significant days. Whether you are dealing with loss, difficult relationships, or the pain of being a father who has lost a child, our Intensive Outpatient Program (IOP) and Partial Hospitalization Program (PHP) are here to support you.

The Spectrum of Experiences

  • Estranged or Difficult Relationships: For some, Father's Day can be a painful reminder of strained or non-existent relationships with their fathers. These individuals might feel sadness,...
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Experiencing a mental health crisis can be an overwhelming and life-altering event. Whether it leads to a 72-hour psychological hold at the hospital, an inpatient stay, or an admittance to a residential or inpatient treatment facility, the journey doesn’t end there. The immediate crisis might be contained, but the path to sustained recovery and stability requires ongoing support. This is where step-down programs like Intensive Outpatient Programs (IOP) and Partial Hospitalization Programs (PHP) come into play. At Innerspace Counseling, we specialize in these transitional phases to ensure a smooth and effective recovery process.

Understanding Step-Down Options After Inpatient Treatment

Step-down programs are crucial after a mental health crisis and subsequent inpatient or residential treatment. They provide a bridge between inpatient care and returning to everyday life. Here’s a...

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June is Men's Mental Health Month, a crucial time to recognize and address the unique mental health challenges men face. At Innerspace Counseling, we understand that men often grapple with stigma and shame when dealing with mental health issues. This stigma can prevent them from seeking the help they need. Our goal is to dismantle these barriers and provide a supportive environment where men can find effective treatment options and regain control over their mental well-being.

The Impact of Traditional Gender Roles on Men's Mental Health

Traditional gender roles have long dictated that men should be strong, stoic, and self-reliant. This perception of masculinity...

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As we celebrate Pride Month, it's crucial to deepen our understanding and appreciation of the diverse identities within the LGBTQPIA+ spectrum. This blog post delves into the definitions and significance of these varied identities, underscoring the importance of inclusive language and respect for all.

We also examine the mental health challenges faced by the LGBTQPIA+ community, highlighting how discrimination, stigma, and minority stress can impact well-being. By exploring coping strategies and resilience, we aim to provide valuable insights into navigating these challenges. We'll discuss the pivotal role of family and friends in supporting mental health, including navigating family dynamics and coming out stories.

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Thinking about young children experiencing mental health challenges is indeed an uncomfortable feeling for many parents. However, as uncomfortable as it may be, it is crucial to acknowledge that children can and do face mental health challenges. These challenges range from ADHD, anxiety, and depression to obsessive-compulsive disorder OCD,...

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Burnout is a state of chronic physical and emotional exhaustion caused by prolonged stress and overwork. It is often characterized by feelings of detachment, a lack of accomplishment, and a decrease in job performance. The symptoms of burnout can vary, but they generally include:

  • Emotional exhaustion: Feeling drained, overwhelmed, and unable to cope.
  • Depersonalization: Developing a cynical attitude towards work and colleagues.
  • Reduced personal accomplishment: Experiencing a decline in job satisfaction and efficacy.

Differences Between Stress and Burnout

While stress and burnout are related, they are not the same. Stress is a state of mental or emotional strain resulting from adverse or demanding circumstances. It is typically short-term and can be managed with effective coping strategies. Burnout, on the other hand, is a chronic condition that results from prolonged exposure to stress and can have severe consequences on one's mental and physical health....

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Attachment styles, a concept rooted in developmental psychology, play a crucial role in shaping our interactions and relationships throughout life. These styles are formed during early childhood and significantly impact how we relate to others as adults. Understanding these attachment styles is essential for addressing various mental health issues, including anxiety, depression, and personality disorders. In this blog post, we will delve into how attachment styles form, the areas of life they affect, the different types of attachment styles, and how Innerspace Counseling can help you or your loved ones manage and overcome the challenges...

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In today's fast-paced world, where the hustle and bustle often overshadow our inner needs, taking a step back to reflect on our mental health is not just beneficial; it's necessary. In this blog post, we aim to shed light on the critical importance of discussing mental health openly, offering practical advice for navigating these vital conversations with confidence and care. We understand that initiating dialogue about mental wellness can feel daunting. How do you start? What do you say?

Recognizing these challenges, we also explore how family sessions at Innerspace Counseling can serve as a bridge, facilitating these discussions in a supportive, understanding environment. Join us as we guide you through the process of opening up, equipped with expert insights and actionable tips, ensuring that you're never walking this path alone. Together, we can change the narrative around mental health, one conversation at a time.

This communication is especially essential when navigating the complexities of a decline in mental health, especially if you find yourself grappling...

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At Innerspace Counseling, we recognize the immense value of networking for mental health professionals, particularly in ensuring comprehensive care for our clients. Whether operating within our Intensive Outpatient Program (IOP), Partial Hospitalization Program (PHP), or other settings like outpatient, residential, and beyond, the ability to maintain a robust network of trusted referrals is pivotal. This blog will explore how such a network can benefit clients, especially those needing to transition between levels of care or require additional services during their treatment.

Why Building a Trusted Referral Network Matters

For professionals in mental health care, a referral network is not just a resource—it is an extension of the care continuum that ensures clients receive holistic and timely support. By leveraging the expertise and services of various professionals, a...

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As summer approaches, a collective sigh of relief often sweeps through families, heralding a break from the academic year’s challenges. For parents of children and adolescents who have navigated mental health problems like anxiety and depression during the school year, this period typically brings an improvement in mood and behavior. The decrease in school pressures might seem to resolve these issues, tempting some to delay seeking further mental health care. However, this decision might overlook a critical opportunity for deeper healing and preparation for future challenges.

The Deceptive Calm of Summer

While the summer break can offer vital respite for children and teenagers grappling with mental health disorders, it is crucial to acknowledge that the...

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Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) is a term that has become a staple in online discourse and everyday conversations, often used loosely or inaccurately to describe someone who appears excessively vain or self-centered. However, this casual usage belies the complexity and seriousness of NPD, a recognized mental health condition that requires careful professional evaluation and management. Innerspace Counseling is committed to providing comprehensive support through its Intensive Outpatient Program (IOP) and Partial Hospitalization Program (PHP), helping individuals and their families navigate the challenges associated with NPD.

What is Narcissistic Personality Disorder?

Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) is a chronic psychological...

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In today's fast-paced world, where mental health issues increasingly come to the fore, understanding and implementing trauma-informed care is essential. At Innerspace Counseling, we prioritize creating a supportive environment that acknowledges the vast impact of adverse experiences on lifelong health and behavior. But what exactly is trauma-informed care, and how does it differ from other forms of mental health care, including specific trauma treatments like EMDR?

What is Trauma-Informed Care?

Trauma-informed care (TIC) is an approach in the mental health field that presupposes that an understanding of the pervasive nature of trauma is crucial to effectively delivering mental health care.

Unlike therapy that directly addresses trauma through treatments like EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing), which is designed to alleviate the stress associated with traumatic memories, trauma-informed care is a broader philosophy. It involves recognizing the presence of trauma symptoms and acknowledging the role adverse experiences may...

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In a world that's constantly evolving, where the pace of life seems to only accelerate, finding a haven that offers understanding, care, and expertise is invaluable. This month, Innerspace Counseling celebrates an incredible ten years of providing such a sanctuary, dedicated to nurturing mental health and fostering community well-being.

At the heart of Innerspace Counseling's success is Ajita Shah, LPC, NCC, ACS, PMH-C whose visionary leadership has been pivotal in shaping the agency into what it is today. Ajita's commitment to excellence, coupled with a profound empathy for those seeking support, has established a foundation of trust and respect that extends throughout our entire organization. Her vision was clear from the start – to create a space where anyone could find professional, empathetic care tailored to their individual needs, regardless of the challenges they faced.

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Anger, a universal emotion, serves as a vital signal in our emotional landscape. It's a natural response to various triggers, ranging from minor frustrations to significant injustices. Yet, the ways in which we encounter and articulate anger are as diverse as the individuals experiencing it.

For some, anger appears as a fleeting annoyance, swiftly passing like a summer storm. Others might find themselves consumed by its intensity, navigating through turbulent waves of rage. Understanding the nuances of anger,...

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In today's digital age, the Internet, particularly social media, has become an integral part of our daily lives. While it offers incredible opportunities for learning, connecting, and sharing, it also presents challenges that can significantly impact our mental health. Innerspace Counseling is deeply committed to addressing these challenges by fostering positive online habits and critical thinking about digital interactions. This blog explores the intricate relationship between our online behaviors and mental health, outlines negative and positive online habits, and emphasizes the role of mindfulness in navigating the digital landscape. Furthermore, it discusses how mental illnesses can influence our engagement online and how Innerspace Counseling's comprehensive treatment options, including the Intensive Outpatient Program (IOP) and Partial Hospitalization Program (PHP), can support those affected....

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At Innerspace Counseling, we recognize the profound impact that stigma can have on individuals struggling with mental health issues. Stigma around mental health can arise from numerous sources, including cultural beliefs, historical mistreatment, and misinformation. Understanding the origins and consequences of these stigmas is crucial for dismantling them and promoting a more supportive environment for everyone seeking mental health care.

Understanding the Origins of Mental Health Stigma

Spiritual beliefs in different communities significantly impact perceptions of mental health. In some cultures, mental illnesses are misinterpreted as signs of spiritual weakness or even malevolent forces at work. This can lead to stigmatization where individuals are labeled instead of being offered help, exacerbating feelings of isolation and discouragement from seeking appropriate treatment. Such views complicate efforts to change perceptions and promote a more scientifically grounded understanding of mental health issues.

Historical injustices and...

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Skin conditions and mental health issues often coexist, creating a complex relationship that affects individuals’ quality of life. Innerspace Counseling is dedicated to providing comprehensive mental health care, including addressing how mental health disorders such as anxiety, depression, OCD, and mood disorders can influence or exacerbate skin conditions like acne, psoriasis, eczema, and hives. Understanding this connection is vital for effective treatment and...

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The intricate relationship between the mind and the body has long fascinated both medical professionals and the general public alike. One of the most compelling illustrations of this connection is the link between gastrointestinal (GI) issues and mental health problems.

In this blog, we will delve into the biological and psychological mechanisms that intertwine these two seemingly distinct areas, the impact of mental health on abdominal well-being, and how therapies like Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) and Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) can offer relief. Additionally, we'll introduce the comprehensive mental health care approach at Innerspace Counseling, including our...

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In the journey of adolescence, teens face numerous challenges that shape their present and future. Two primary areas that often become sources of stress are academics and future planning. These challenges are not just about managing time or choosing a career path; they involve complex emotional, psychological, and social dynamics. For many teens, these stresses are compounded by mental health challenges, making it essential to approach these areas with a mental health lens. In this blog, we'll explore the challenges teens face in academics and future planning, the impact of mental health disorders, and provide tips with a mental health focus. We'll also introduce how Innerspace Counseling's programs, including our unique adolescent Partial Hospitalization Program (PHP) with...

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Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD) in teens is a complex mental health condition that not only affects the individuals experiencing it but also their families and loved ones. Recognizing and supporting a teen with OCD requires patience, understanding, and a comprehensive approach to treatment. At Innerspace Counseling, we're committed to providing guidance and support to families navigating the challenges of OCD. This blog aims to offer insights into the symptoms of...

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In today’s fast-paced world, the significance of maintaining mental health cannot be overstated. At Innerspace Counseling, we understand the complexities of navigating mental health issues and the importance of adopting effective coping skills. One such powerful tool is meditation, known for its profound benefits on mental well-being. Intriguingly, meditation is not just a standalone practice but also a core component of Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), due to its strong connections to mindfulness.

Understanding Meditation and Its Benefits

Meditation, a practice dating back thousands of years, involves techniques designed to promote relaxation, build internal energy, and develop compassion,...

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In today's fast-paced world, where the demands of daily life often drown out the whispers of our innermost thoughts and emotions, embarking on a journey of self-discovery and healing can feel like navigating through a maze. However, amidst the chaos, there exists a timeless practice that serves as a guiding light: journaling. This simple yet profound act of putting pen to paper has the remarkable ability to unravel the complexities of our minds and emotions, offering a sanctuary for introspection and growth.

In this blog post, we delve deep into the essence of journaling, exploring its profound connection to mindfulness and Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), and how it serves as a beacon of hope for individuals grappling with various mental health disorders. Additionally, we'll provide insight into useful mental health journal prompts, offering a roadmap for self-reflection and healing....

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In the journey toward mental wellness, the partnership between patients and their healthcare providers is crucial, especially when it comes to managing medications. At Innerspace Counseling, we understand the delicate balance required in treating mental health disorders, including anxiety, depression, mood disorders and other mental health issues. This blog aims to shed light on the significance of safe medication storage and adhering to safety plan directives, particularly when treatment providers suggest that someone hold and administer medications for a patient.

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In today's fast-paced world, the significance of nutrition in maintaining and enhancing mental health cannot be overstated. The link between what we consume and how we feel, both emotionally and mentally, is becoming increasingly recognized within the health community. This connection is especially crucial for individuals experiencing mood disorders, suicidal thoughts, or those in perinatal stages, where nutritional needs and mental health challenges can intersect significantly.

At Innerspace Counseling, we understand the profound impact that dietary habits can have on mental well-being. This shows how important it is to consider diet in mental health care. It should be part of treatment plans made with a...

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Sleep plays a crucial role in maintaining our mental and physical health, yet it's often overlooked in discussions about mental well-being. Poor sleep hygiene can lead to a range of mental health issues, affecting everything from our daily mood to our long-term mental health. This is particularly pertinent for individuals experiencing conditions such as insomnia, which can severely impact one's quality of life and exacerbate symptoms of mood disorders.

In this blog, we'll explore the importance of good sleep hygiene, identify factors that contribute to poor sleep, discuss the mental health consequences of inadequate sleep, and offer tips for improving sleep hygiene. We'll also highlight how Innerspace Counseling's programs, including...

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In today's fast-paced world, where mental health problems are increasingly prevalent among children, adolescents, and adults alike, the role of parents in nurturing emotional intelligence in their children has never been more critical.

What is Emotional Intelligence?

Emotional Intelligence (EI) is the ability to understand, use, and manage one's own emotions in positive ways to relieve stress, communicate effectively, empathize with others, overcome challenges, and defuse conflict. EI is measured by the emotional quotient (EQ). Alongside professional mental health care options such as Intensive Outpatient Programs (IOP) and Partial Hospitalization Programs (PHP) offered by Innerspace Counseling, parents' involvement in their child's emotional development plays...

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The global pandemic of 2020 marked an unprecedented increase in feelings of loneliness and isolation, conditions that have plagued humanity for centuries. This surge has persisted even as we edge closer to what resembles pre-pandemic normalcy, leaving many individuals caught in a struggle with prolonged loneliness and social isolation. Recognizing the profound effect these emotions have on personal well-being, especially when compounded by other mental health issues. The American Surgeon General's 2023 report titled "Our Epidemic of Loneliness and Isolation," highlights that nearly 50% of Americans report experiencing a deep sense of loneliness. This staggering figure underscores the critical nature of addressing these feelings, alongside the mental health issues that may exacerbate them, through comprehensive support and intervention.

Innerspace Counseling has responded to this crisis by emphasizing the importance...

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Valentine's Day, with its celebration of love and romance, can be a joyous occasion for many, marked by expressions of affection and appreciation. However, for individuals grappling with the complexities of unhealthy romantic relationships or enduring the aftermath of a painful break-up, this day can serve as a poignant reminder of their emotional struggles.

At Innerspace Counseling, we recognize the profound impact that unhealthy relationships and break-ups can have on an individual's mental health condition. The experience of navigating toxic dynamics or coping with the loss of a significant relationship can evoke a range of challenging emotions, including feeling sadness, loneliness, and self-doubt.

In this blog, we aim to shed light on the negative effects of such experiences, acknowledging the unique emotional terrain that individuals may traverse during this time.

Moreover, we offer practical coping strategies and insights to empower individuals to navigate Valentine's Day with resilience and self-compassion, fostering a sense of inner strength and...

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In the fast-paced, high-stakes environment of academic excellence, high achieving students are increasingly facing a challenging adversary: anxiety. At Innerspace Counseling, we recognize the unique pressures these students encounter. This blog aims to delve into the intricate link between high academic achievement and elevated anxiety levels, and how our Intensive Outpatient Program (IOP) and Partial Hospitalization Program (PHP) can provide effective support.

The Burden of High Expectations

High achieving students often operate under immense pressure. The drive for perfection, whether...

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Understanding the connection between our physical health and mental well-being is important in today's busy and stressful world. At Innerspace Counseling, we strongly emphasize the importance of nurturing both aspects to achieve overall health and happiness. This understanding forms the backbone of our treatment approaches, including our Intensive Outpatient Program (IOP) and Partial Hospitalization Program (PHP), where we focus on holistic healing practices.

The Deep Interconnection Between Mind and Body

The mind-body connection refers to the powerful link and interaction between our physical and mental states. It's a central theme in various mental health treatments, including...

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Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD) is a neurodevelopmental condition that can impact various aspects of an individual's life, including their performance in the workplace. At Innerspace Counseling, we understand the unique challenges that adults with ADHD face in professional settings. In this blog, we will shift our focus to ADHD in the workplace and explore techniques for managing distractions, strategies for effective communication, and the role of...

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In the journey of overcoming mental health barriers, such as anxiety and depression, seeking professional help is a crucial step. Innerspace Counseling, through its Intensive Outpatient Program (IOP) and Partial Hospitalization Program (PHP), offers a comprehensive and innovative approach to mental health treatment. However, the importance of familial, community, or support systems should never be underestimated when facing these challenges alone.

The Isolation Dilemma

When individuals face mental health issues in isolation, several problems can arise. It's common for thoughts and feelings to become overwhelming,...

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In mental health care, individuals seeking treatment often find themselves confronted with many options. While general or co-occurring programs are valuable for addressing both substance use and mental health concerns simultaneously, not everyone faces this dual challenge.

Innerspace Counseling helps people with mental health problems like anxiety, depression, PTSD, OCD, and...

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As we step into the fresh pages of 2024, it's the perfect time to take a moment to reflect on the journey that was 2023. It was a year filled with challenges, opportunities, and moments of growth. At Innerspace Counseling, we believe that the new year is not just about making resolutions, but also about celebrating the progress we've already made and setting new goals to continue our personal growth and well-being.

Reflecting on 2023: A Year of Self-Discovery and Growth

Before we dive into the new year's aspirations, let's take a moment to reflect on the milestones and achievements you experienced in 2023. It's crucial to acknowledge your journey, from the progress you made in setting boundaries to the times you prioritized self-care. Here are a few areas worth contemplating:

  • Boundary Setting: In the hustle and bustle of life, we often forget the importance of setting boundaries. Reflect on how well you were able to establish and maintain your personal boundaries in 2023. Did you say "no"...

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At Innerspace Counseling, our fundamental belief is that every individual, irrespective of their gender identity, sexual orientation, or family-building choices, should have unequivocal access to high-quality mental health care. Today, we are compelled to bring attention to a critical and long-standing issue that continues to affect the LGBTQ+ perinatal community: the severe shortage of awareness and resources. While an alarming gap in mental health resources already exists for straight/cisgender parents, the predicament deepens when considering LGBTQ+ gestational parents. These individuals...

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The holiday season is a time of joy, celebration, and togetherness for many. It's a time when friends and family gather, share laughter and memories, and exchange gifts to celebrate the year's end. However, for some individuals, the holidays can be a challenging and stressful time, particularly those who are already experiencing mental health barriers such as anxiety, depression, or other mental health disorders. At Innerspace Counseling, we understand the importance of providing support and guidance during this season, especially for those enrolled in our...

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Pregnancy is a transformative journey that brings forth a whirlwind of emotions and challenges. For many individuals, this phase is not only marked by the physical changes and anticipation of new life but also by mental health issues that can be overwhelming. Unfortunately, despite the awareness surrounding mental health, pregnant individuals nationwide are left with limited resources to navigate these trying times. In this blog, we will shed light on the general lack of resources for pregnant individuals in the United States, the variability of perinatal rights across states, and the particularly acute shortage of...

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The holiday season often conjures images of warmth, togetherness, and joy spent with loved ones. It's a time when twinkling lights adorn homes, and the aroma of delicious meals fills the air.

During the holiday season, amidst the festive decorations and happy songs, people often forget a certain part. This overlooked aspect can actually make this joyful time less happy. During this time, many individuals may experience feelings of loneliness and isolation. They may believe that they are the only ones who are going through these intense emotions.

At Innerspace Counseling, we acknowledge that many people experience loneliness during the holidays, but we rarely openly discuss it. Feeling left out during the holidays can make people feel like they don't belong in their own lives. The pressure to be merry, the constant reminders of the importance of family and togetherness, and the bombardment of seemingly...

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At Innerspace Counseling, our mission is to provide compassionate mental health support during life's most critical moments. One area where we see an alarming gap is in the education and awareness surrounding perinatal mental health. It's an issue that deserves our attention, as countless individuals navigate the journey to parenthood without the vital knowledge and resources they need.

The perinatal period is often seen as a joyous and exciting time, and rightfully so. However, the reality is that it's also a time of immense change and challenge for both expectant parents. While many individuals spend months researching baby names and nursery decor, there is often a significant lack of education regarding the emotional and mental health aspects of pregnancy and the postpartum period. This lack of awareness can lead to undiagnosed and untreated perinatal mood disorders, which can have serious consequences for both the...

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In today's fast-paced world, teenagers are facing unique challenges that previous generations couldn't have imagined. One of these emerging issues is the rise of teenage gambling.

With the advancement of online gambling applications like FanDuel, online poker, fantasy football, and online casinos, the temptation for young minds to test their luck is stronger than ever. These platforms are explicitly illegal for minors, but many teens have found inventive ways to circumvent age restrictions, often resorting to stealing their parents' information, including social security numbers, to sign up for these gambling sites.

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Dating has changed a lot with technology. More teens now use the internet to find love. Online dating has pros and cons, including challenges, for teenagers seeking meaningful relationships and connections.

At Innerspace Counseling, we understand how online dating affects teenagers' mental health. We have programs like Intensive Outpatient Program (IOP) and Partial Hospitalization Program (PHP) to help and treat those who need it.

Understanding the Popularity of Online Dating Among Teens

Teenagers face a myriad of challenges as they navigate through adolescence. Many teenagers struggle with low self-esteem, insecure relationships, problems setting boundaries, and fear of commitment. These challenges can leave teens feeling isolated and seeking connections beyond their immediate surroundings.

Teenagers with...

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Having a baby is a wonderful but tough journey, with physical and emotional challenges. Many new mothers find themselves grappling with a range of emotions during the postpartum period, which is entirely normal. Distinguishing between "baby blues" and postpartum depression (PPD) is crucial. This understanding ensures that mothers receive appropriate assistance and treatment.

Innerspace Counseling offers New Jersey's first ever Perinatal Wellness Program featuring Intensive Outpatient Program (IOP) and Partial Hospitalization Program (PHP) dedicated to...

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The holiday season can be stressful for many people, despite its intention of bringing happiness and kindness. The holidays can ironically be a time where some feel most anxious on holidays. The excitement of celebrations can turn into a scary countdown, causing different emotional difficulties.

We know people might wonder, "What type of depression do I have?" while dealing with holiday stress. The holidays can amplify mental health issues like anxiety, depression (including high functioning depression),...

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Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) has emerged as a transformative force in the field of mental health care treatment. DBT is a valuable resource for mental health challenges. It has a rich history, diverse applications, and focuses on group therapy. In this comprehensive exploration, we delve into the origins and evolution of DBT, uncover its myriad applications, and shed light on how Innerspace Counseling adeptly employs DBT in its Intensive Outpatient Program (IOP) and Partial Hospitalization Program (PHP).

History of DBT:

The journey of Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) begins with the pioneering work of Dr. Marsha M. Linehan in the late 1980s. Originally designed to treat individuals with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD), DBT has since evolved into a versatile and evidence-based approach that effectively...

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As parents, our children's well-being is our top priority. Feeling worried about mental health and taking psychiatric medication is normal when it's part of the treatment plan. Worries and concerns are valid, but it's important to know that medication can often help manage mental health problems.

One common misconception is that seeking medication signifies a failure or a lack of alternative options. However, it's essential to recognize that many mental health conditions, including ADHD, PTSD, OCD,...

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In the modern world, lighting is everywhere. However, for people in Intensive Outpatient Programs (IOP) and Partial Hospitalization Programs (PHP), being sensitive to lights (especially LED Lights, blue lights, and bright lights) can greatly affect their mental health. Bright lights can worsen anxiety, depression, mood disorders, panic disorders, and cause physical discomfort. This heightened sensitivity can affect their daily activities and their experiences in group therapy...

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As the rustling leaves dance to the tune of October's breezy whispers, many eagerly anticipate the magic of Halloween. Children and adults alike select costumes, embodying personas ranging from whimsical to fearsome. However, beyond the celebration lies an opportunity for introspection.

Halloween offers a mirror to a reality many face daily—the "masks" we wear. At Innerspace Counseling, we recognize that these metaphorical masks can sometimes hide profound emotions and struggles.

Beyond Physical Disguises: Our Everyday Masks

The concept of masks isn’t new. For centuries, humans have worn physical and emotional disguises. On Halloween, we wear them for enjoyment. But in our daily lives? We don them to protect our vulnerabilities, to fit into societal molds, or to manage expectations.

This is especially noticeable for people dealing with...

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In today's world, it's impossible to shield our children from the complex and often unsettling events happening around the globe. One of the most challenging topics today to discuss with young ones is the ongoing conflict in Israel and Palestine. These are indeed unsettling times, and it's natural for children to feel anxious and confused. As parents and caregivers, our role is to provide a safe space for open dialogue while imparting understanding and empathy.

Acknowledge Their Feelings

First and foremost, it's essential to acknowledge your child's feelings. Start the conversation by asking how they feel about what they've seen or heard. Validate their emotions, whether it's the deep-seated fear that something bad might happen, the perplexing confusion surrounding the conflict, the profound sadness for those affected, or the frustration and...

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The internet is important for students, providing many chances to learn, connect, and have fun in today's digital world. However, it also presents challenges.

October is National Bullying Prevention Month. We want to make people aware of different types of bullying, such as cyber bullying, which worries parents and kids. At Innerspace Counseling, we understand the significance of addressing this issue and providing support to those who need it. Cyber bullying is one factor that contributes to many mental health issues and all these issues can lead to...

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At Innerspace Counseling, we think every child deserves to grow in a supportive environment that encourages their dreams. October marks the National Bullying Prevention Month, a period not just for reflection but also for action. It's time to learn about and stop this issue in all its forms, to protect against its harmful effects.

Depression, anxiety, post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD),...

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Student life can already be a rollercoaster of emotions, with mental health problems such as anxiety, stress, and depression often being common. Surprisingly, many students are unaware of how common anxiety attacks and panic attacks are among their peers.

Recognizing these attacks and knowing how to cope is vital. Many students have difficulty telling the difference between panic attacks and anxiety attacks. It is crucial to understand the distinctions and discover effective ways to manage...

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The significance of mental health awareness resonates deeply with us here at Innerspace Counseling. Anxiety, depression, anger issues, ADHD, PTSD,...

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Every parent dreams of watching their child blossom into a confident and motivated individual. Sometimes, obstacles can interrupt dreams, such as when your high school child refuses to go to school. As a parent, it's heart-wrenching to hear your child say, “I can't go to school today.” But understanding the reasons behind school refusal and learning how to help can be the key to transformation. Understanding why your high school child refuses to go to school and how IOP (...

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The back-to-school season can be an exciting time for many children and parents. However, for some, it can also bring about a considerable amount of anxiety and stress. In some cases, these feelings can be so overwhelming that they lead to or exacerbate Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD).

In this blog post, we want to raise PTSD...

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The Complex Terrain of Mental Health and Depression

As we solemnly commemorate Suicide Prevention Month, there is a pressing need to delve deeper into understanding depression, an affliction that burdens billions of people globally. At Innerspace Counseling, we emphasize that depression isn't merely a state of sadness. It is a multi-faceted mental health condition that can manifest as clinical depression, postpartum depression, manic depression, bipolar depression, functional depression, and more. Understanding its complexities is paramount for fostering a safe environment for...

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A good night's sleep is often underestimated, especially among students who juggle academics, extracurricular activities, and social lives. However, maintaining a regular sleep schedule is crucial for students' overall well-being, particularly their mental health. In this blog post, we will explore the significance of consistent sleep schedules for students, delve into common sleep problems they face, and provide examples of how to correct these issues, emphasizing the role of professional help when needed.

Common Sleep Problems for Students

  • Irregular Sleep Patterns: Many students struggle with irregular sleep schedules, staying up late on weekends and then attempting to compensate during the week. This inconsistency can disrupt their circadian rhythms, leading to sleep difficulties.

  • Insomnia: Stress, anxiety, and academic pressures often contribute to insomnia among...

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The History of World Peace Day

Every year on September 21st, people from around the globe come together to celebrate World Peace Day. This significant day is dedicated to promoting peace, harmony, and unity among nations and individuals. To truly appreciate the essence of World Peace Day, let's delve into its history.

The journey to establish a day dedicated to peace began in 1981 when the United Nations General Assembly declared the third Tuesday of September as the International Day of Peace. Later, in 2001, the UN shifted the date to September 21st, coinciding with the opening of its annual session. This change aimed to emphasize the connection between peace and the UN's mission to foster cooperation among nations.

World Peace Day serves as a reminder of the catastrophic consequences of war, conflicts, and violence. It encourages nations and individuals to work towards resolving disputes peacefully, promoting human rights, and fostering social justice. Over the years, various events, initiatives, and campaigns have been organized to mark...

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Mental health issues are complex and can have far-reaching consequences on various aspects of our lives. While the impact on emotional well-being is widely recognized, the connection between mental health and finances is often overlooked. In this blog post, we will explore the ways in which mental health issues can affect our financial health and decision-making processes and well as what you can do to reduce financial risk.

Financial concerns to consider:

  1. Impulsive Spending and Compulsive Behaviors: Individuals struggling with mental health issues may turn to impulsive spending or engage in compulsive behaviors as a coping mechanism. This can lead to significant financial strain, as they often find themselves in debt or unable to meet their financial obligations. Understanding the root causes behind these behaviors is crucial in seeking effective treatment and developing healthier financial habits.

  2. Decreased Earning Potential: Mental health challenges can hinder one's ability to perform optimally in the workplace. Symptoms such as low...

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As parents, we want our children to feel safe, confident, and supported at school. Unfortunately, bullying can pose significant challenges to their well-being. It is essential to recognize the signs that your child may be experiencing bullying and take proactive steps to address the issue. In this blog post, we will explore common signs of bullying, provide expert tips on supporting your child, and suggest resources to help them cope effectively.

Signs Your Child May Be Being Bullied

It's crucial to be aware of the signs that may indicate your child is being bullied. While every child may respond differently, here are some common signs to look out for:

  1. Behavioral Changes: Notice any sudden shifts in your child's behavior, such as withdrawing from activities they once enjoyed, becoming unusually quiet or anxious, or showing decreased interest in school.

  2. Physical Signs: Keep an eye out for unexplained bruises, scratches, or other physical marks on your child's body. Additionally, frequent headaches, stomachaches, or even faking illness to...

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As the warmth of summer gently yields to the crispness of autumn, we often find ourselves immersed in a seasonal transition that blends excitement with challenges. This changing of the seasons calls for adjustments not only in our attire but also in our mental and daily routines. At Innerspace Counseling, we empathize with the rollercoaster of emotions that this transition can bring. We're here to provide valuable tips to help you navigate this shift gracefully, from the relaxed days of summer to the vibrant hues of autumn.

  1. Create a Comfortable Haven: Begin by nurturing your environment. Personalize your space to reflect your style and bring you comfort. A cozy and familiar setting can offer a soothing backdrop as you navigate the changing season.

  2. Embrace Mindfulness, Disconnect from Screens: Reducing screen time, particularly as outdoor activities become limited, may seem daunting. However, limiting phone usage can be a potent way to practice mindfulness and alleviate anxiety. Disconnect from screens to reconnect with your inner...

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Welcome back to the Innerspace Counseling blog! With the new school year on the horizon, the subject of managing daily life with ADHD is ever relevant. Today, we're focusing on a two interlinked solutions that can help for managing ADHD: A consistent routine and dialectical behavior therapy (DBT). Both of these elements are integral parts of our Intensive Outpatient Programs (IOP) and Partial Hospitalization Programs (PHP), which we’ll clarify for you.

Why Routines Matter

Routines are not just a sequence of activities lined up to keep you busy; they're your personalized blueprint for navigating each day effectively, especially crucial when you're managing ADHD. Picture this: You have an exam to study for, but you find yourself...

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Welcome to Innerspace Counseling’s blog, where we explore the complex terrains of mental health. Today, we're delving into a milestone that many of us have faced or will face at some point: the transition to college. The buzz of a new chapter, the dreams of future success, and the promise of newfound independence are exhilarating, but they often come with a hidden companion - anxiety.

Are you a student stepping into the world of higher education, away from the familiar surroundings of home? Or perhaps a parent, watching your child spread their wings, mixed with concerns and apprehensions? Leaving home for college is a bittersweet journey, filled with excitement and uncertainty. It's normal to feel an underlying anxiety about this significant life change.

In this post, we'll explore the emotions tied to this transition and offer...

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As the new academic year looms, anticipation and anxiety often intertwine. Back-to-school anxiety is common among students and parents. Yet, with the right strategies and supports, such as those offered in Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), this anxiety can be managed effectively. This guide aims to explore back-to-school anxiety through the lens of DBT and provide practical tips based on DBT principles.

Understanding Back-to-School Anxiety

Back-to-school anxiety is a type of situational anxiety triggered by the impending start of a new academic year. This...

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Depression is a serious mental health issue that affects roughly one in five adults in the United States. It is estimated that 16.2 million adults have had at least one major depressive episode in 2019 alone and the prevalence of depression is higher among women than men. While it can affect anyone at any age, depression is particularly common among teenagers. According to the National Institute of Mental Health, around 11% of adolescents in the US suffer from depression. It can be overwhelming, debilitating, and even lead to suicidal thoughts or actions if not addressed properly. Thankfully, there are many treatment options available in New Jersey for those struggling with depression. In this blog post, we will discuss the signs and symptoms of depression as well as some effective treatments that may help you or a loved one manage the condition. We hope this information will provide support and guidance for anyone dealing with depression in the Garden State.

The signs and symptoms of depression can vary from person to person, but there...

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Parenting a child with mental health issues can be challenging, but it's also incredibly rewarding. With the right support from professionals and family members, your child has the best chance of managing their mental health effectively and leading an enjoyable life. Start by talking to your child about their mental health—even if it feels intimidating or overwhelming. Ask questions, listen to their answers, and reassure them that it’s ok to talk about difficult topics.

Try to create an open environment in your home where your child can feel comfortable discussing their mental health with you. Encourage them to express their feelings without fear of judgment or criticism—this will make it easier for them to come to you when they need help. Ask questions, validate their feelings, and let them know you are available. Once you understand what your child is going through, you can better equip yourself to provide them with the support they need.

As a parent, it’s important to stay informed about mental health issues and be aware of the signs of distress in your child....

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Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD) is a prevalent mental health condition impacting people across the globe. The disorder is marked by challenges in concentrating, impulsive behavior, restlessness, and other associated symptoms. Although there is no definitive cure for ADHD, there are available interventions to effectively manage its manifestations. Among these approaches, Dialectical Behavioral Therapy (DBT) holds significance. This article delves into ADHD symptoms, various treatment possibilities, and the constructive role that DBT plays within a comprehensive treatment strategy.

The core symptoms commonly linked to ADHD encompass difficulties in sustaining attention or focus on tasks, susceptibility to distraction, impulsive decision-making without foresight of consequences, heightened activity level or restlessness, limited emotional control, feeling overwhelmed in the face of multiple tasks, frequent irritability or agitation, consistent misplacement of items like books or assignments, and regular experience of stress and overwhelm.

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Navigating a job loss is undeniably a complex and trying journey, yet within its challenges lies the potential for personal evolution and deep contemplation. While acknowledging the spectrum of emotions like anxiety, despondency, and unease that frequently accompany such a transition, it is equally imperative to acknowledge the positive aspects that can emerge.

The strain of a job loss can lead to feelings of ambiguity and apprehension, sparking concerns about future prospects and financial equilibrium. Furthermore, it can even manifest as physical health issues such as heightened blood pressure, heart ailments, and disturbances in sleep patterns.

Safeguarding one's mental well-being assumes paramount importance during this phase. Engaging in self-care rituals and cultivating novel interests can provide solace. Becoming part of a support network or seeking personalized counseling can aid in navigating the intricate emotions connected to loss and grieving.

Indicators that underscore the need for professional mental health support post-job loss encompass...

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Mental health is an important part of overall health. Unfortunately mental health conditions are common, both in adults and children. As a parent, it’s essential to know the signs and symptoms that could indicate your child or teen is struggling with their mental health, so that you can help. In today’s blog post from Innerspace Counseling in Old Bridge, New Jersey, we are going to discuss how parents can identify when their child may be in need of mental health counseling and treatment. Read on to learn more, and if you’re looking for a mental health specialist in New Jersey, reach out to Innerspace Counseling today.

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Music is universal. When people listen to music, it triggers a part of our brain that lets us have an emotional and sometimes a physical reaction (i.e., crying, heart racing, etc.) which differs person to person due to our own brain chemistry and experiences. Listening to music is also a great way for us to practice mindfulness. Listening to music mindfully allows us to be fully present, increase our attention to ourselves and others around us, increase awareness of our bodies and emotions, and reduce anxiety and stress. It also helps us practice being nonjudgmental of our emotions and thoughts that arise when we listen to music mindfully.

Sounds have vibrations at different levels or frequencies just like colors in the rainbow. When these vibrations hit our ears and brains each frequency causes a reaction When we utilize colored noise in our mindfulness practices there are additional mental health benefits. For example, we can identify our emotions and thoughts that arise which helps us process things that we may not have realized we...

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In 2020 over 12.2 million Americans seriously considered suicide, according to data collected by the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention. But for many people, talking about suicide is still taboo — if not outright inappropriate in most settings outside a mental health professional’s office.

Suicide doesn’t care if it’s “taboo” to talk about or not — it takes, and it takes, and it takes, indiscriminately, quietly, violently, leaving broken hearts and destroyed lives in its wake. Talking about suicide with your loved ones or listening to someone speak candidly about their own experiences with mortality is more important than ever before.

At Innerspace Counseling, we believe that human life is more important than taboo, and we want you to know that if you or a loved one are struggling with thoughts about harming yourself or others, we are standing by to help lend a listening ear, a...

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There is a growing body of evidence proving the efficacy of music therapy, with writings dating back to Ancient Roman and Greek texts, including the writings of Aristotle and Plato. Music impacts our mood, and its rhythm impacts our physical bodies.

Some of the psychological benefits include improvements to mood, self-expression, communication, and social skills. The rhythm of music can sync up with our body rhythm for physical benefits to your breathing, blood pressure, and heart rate. It can improve memory and attention as well.

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Innerspace Counseling offers counseling services in Old Bridge to help residents of all ages recover from traumas and disorders that highly impact their lives. It is our mission to help others understand their current standing in life while providing guidance and tools to help them successfully navigate through recovery. Read below why we are the perfect counselors to partner with, or visit our website to learn more!

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Bullying has always been a pervasive issue with young people. But, it can extend beyond the classroom and even into adulthood. It is a problem that is well-known and frequently discussed, but there is no catch-all solution because its roots can vary. Learn more and contact Innerspace Counseling today for more information or to make an appointment.

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When a senseless act of violence such as the one that took place in a Texas elementary school this week occurs, we feel for the families affected and fear such a thing happening much closer to home. There is no easy way to have a conversation with your child about such a tragic event, but it is recommended that you talk to your child. Between heightened police presence at schools, television, social media, and peer conversations at school, most children are aware that something has occurred.

Tips for the conversation:

  • Check in with yourself and think about what you are feeling before speaking to your child. If you bring feelings of anxiety and fear to the conversation, your child will begin feeling anxious and fearful as well.

  • Find out what they already know. You do not need to offer more details than they already know or need.
  • Listen to what they have to say and allow them to guide the conversation.
  • Be mindful of their age and maturity, only sharing information that they are seeking in an age-appropriate...
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New Jersey's Premiere Intensive Mental Health Program Specialist

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Intensive Outpatient (IOP) and Partial Care Programs (PHP) provide short term, intensive treatment for various mental health conditions. Anyone suffering from moderate to severe anxiety or depression, mood disorders, OCD, bipolar, behavioral issues etc. may want to consider a program. Most programs such as those at Innerspace Counseling include several components, creating an all-inclusive mental health treatment experience. These programs are designed to provide strong support in reducing symptoms, to ease the burden of going to multiple providers for different services, as well as to simplify billing and insurance issues. Let’s walk through the process of getting started.

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Parenting an Anxious Child by Melissa Maranzano, MA

Parenting a child with anxiety is challenging. When our children are anxious, we often become anxious ourselves. Our minds race with questions like, “Do I let my child stop doing everything that makes them feel anxious? Do I push them to keep going and just get over it? Is this my fault? At what point should I seek professional help?”

First, you should take a deep breath and try to be a calm presence for yourself and for your child. An anxious parent will not calm an anxious child.

Next, here are some things you should know:

  • It is not your fault. According to the CDC, over 7% of children ages 3-17 have a diagnosis of anxiety. That is 4.4 million kids.

  • There is help and advice available from school counselors, pediatricians, and mental health professionals. Reach out and ask for help. Professionals can provide children with skills to help them manage their symptoms and improve their lives.

  • A...

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Self Care is Knowing Who You Are & Your Limits

Written by Angelina Colon, MS, LAC, NCC

What is self-care?

Self-care in essence is the mindful taking of time to pay attention to you, but in a way that ensures that you are being cared for by you. Self-care means knowing who you are and your limits.

Self-care means recognizing when you are doing more than you are used to handling and trying to figure out what can be done to slow down. Try to find a way to decompress throughout your day. Ask yourself, what helps you tune out the noise of your day, how can you rest your mind during and after a stressful day. Trying to integrate mini breaks throughout your day helps to refresh the mind and body. For example, try stretching or taking a walk, drinking some water, and talking to a friend.

Self-care means identifying...

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Practicing Gratitude

The practice of gratitude provides us with perspective, appreciation, and guides us toward hope. It has positive effects on our physical and emptional health and costs nothing to do and takes little to no. Taking stock in the positive and good that surrounds you can be grounding, making it possible to move and find joy.

2020 was a year like no other in our lifetime. We experienced a global pandemic, lockdowns, and civil and political unrest. Lives were upended by school closures, job loss, financial strain, and toilet paper shortages. How do we move forward with hope and gratitude when much of the issues of 2020 have followed us into the new year?

Some days the good is easy to find, other days it takes some work to see. Many can find gratitude by looking toward their families, their surroundings when their basic needs are met, or toward their spirituality. Keeping a journal or photos of the things that you are grateful for can help you on the days you are having difficulty finding the good. Keep these lists and...

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Written by: Lindsay Sowder, MA, LAC, NCC

Setting healthy habits keep you feeling motivated, create a sense of accomplishment for each day, and increase your confidence overall!

You might want to start off by asking yourself these questions:

  • What about your current routine do you dislike?
  • Why do you want to start a healthy habit?
  • How will your new habits help you achieve your long-term goals?

Here are 3 tips for starting a healthy habit:

  1. Start small!
    • It’s important not to overwhelm yourself with too much at once. Choose something small to start with and stick to it!
  2. Be patient with yourself!
    • When it comes to starting a new habit or routine it’s easy to get stuck in what we call “All or Nothing thinking”. In other words, if you miss one day you fall off the wagon completely. This is a MYTH that we tell ourselves that gets in the way of us being successful! If you miss one day, that’s alright! Every day is a new day, get...
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Written by: Melissa Maranzano, MA

Social media posts can serve as warning signs of a person in a mental health crisis. We have seen the stories of suicidal individuals posting feelings of sadness, loneliness, or even posting goodbye messages. We have also seen news stories where shortly before committing a violent crime, the perpetrator posted messages of hate or rage to their social media accounts. Facebook now utilizes algorithms to flag these posts and alert authorities to conduct wellness checks.

Until now though, the mental health indicators have been quite general and could not identify any specific diagnosis. A study published in Nature Partner Journals Schizophrenia found that we may be able to utilize social media algorithms to identify signs of schizophrenia or mood disorders as much as a year before a psychiatric hospitalization. The study found notable differences in the use of language and images in those with schizophrenia and mood disorders compared to a healthy population. Certainly, social media posts can not be a basis for such a diagnosis, but with...

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Written by Melissa Maranzano, MA

When the COVID 19 outbreak hit New Jersey in March 2020, mental health providers had to scramble to learn virtual platforms, establish procedures and protocols, and get immediately up and running so no patient was left behind. The clients of Innerspace Counseling and other intensive mental health facilities generally have difficulty functioning at home or in school or have emotional and/or behavioral concerns. Patients diagnoses range from bipolar and schizophrenia to anxiety, depression, and ADHD. Not only would it be unethical to leave patients at this level of care without treatment during this crisis, but it would have created a flood of psychiatric emergencies at ER’s and hospitals across the state who were already overwhelmed with COVID 19 patients.

Innerspace Counseling was at the forefront of the abrupt shift to teletherapy. Our Founder & Program Director Ajita Shah, MA, LPC, NCC, ACS and our Board-Certified Psychiatrist, Dr. Jennifer Platt, D.O., advocated with New Jersey Assemblyman Ronald Dancer for an amendment to NJ...

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A new Teen Partial Care Program helps teens find balance through care and empowerment.

September brought in a new school year filled with uncertainty. Few schools in NJ are fully open, many are a hybrid of in-person & virtual learning, while others have fully virtual learning plans in place. While no one can answer the question of when it will all go back to normal, it was important for our team to meet the needs of this unique moment in time for teens and families requiring mental health treatment.

The need for mental health services has increased through the pandemic & Innerspace Counseling has continued to be there by pioneering safe, effective treatment for higher levels of mental healthcare through telehealth. We have gone a step further with our Teen Partial Care Program by incorporating free daily tutoring services.

The Teen Partial Care Program is for teens ages 12 & up dealing with anxiety, depression, school refusal, mood disturbances, self-harm behaviors, & more. Since...

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Signs You May Have Anxiety

July 17, 2020

Anxiety is a common mental disorder that affects approximately 18.1% of the population every year, according to the...more

The Benefits of Teletherapy

May 18, 2020

Teletherapy is a unique service that allows therapists and counselors to provide counseling services via a HIPPA-compliant video conference. This type of therapy is very similar to…more

The Benefits of Group Therapy

February 5, 2020

When most people picture therapy, they are most likely picturing individual counseling. However, there are many different types of therapy, and you may find that some…more

Signs It's Time to Seek Therapy

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Healthy Ways to Cope With Stress

September 5, 2019

Between work, school, and family, stress can affect many different areas of your life. Stress is an emotion that can be difficult to handle if you don’t use the right methods, and it can…more

Signs It's Time to Seek Counseling

April 10, 2020

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How to Talk to Your Loved Ones About Your Mental Health

May 30, 2020

Talking to others about mental health isn’t always the easiest conversation to start. In an ideal world, everyone would be well educated on mental wellness. However, if you disclose…more

What Is Mindfulness?

January 15, 2020

Mindfulness is a word you may have heard used if you have looked into therapy in the past or participate in activities that utilize meditation, such as yoga. You may have also just heard…more

Dialectical Behavior Therapy Explained

January 2, 2020

Those who have sought individual counseling in the past may have quickly realized that there are a variety of different therapy treatments, and it’s important to find the type that works…more

How to Talk to Your Child About Therapy: Part Two

October 10, 2019

Therapy is beneficial for just about everyone. Many people believe that only those who have serious problems or mental health concerns need to attend therapy, but that’s not the…more

How to Talk to Your Child About Intensive Outpatient Programs: Part One

October 10, 2019

Helping children with mental health issues is important. Discussing treatment options like the Intensive Outpatient Program (IOP) is a sensitive but necessary...more